Monday, December 19, 2011
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Take just about any ball with a weatherproof surface, such as a beach ball, and use a permanent marker to write questions for participants to answer. Have your group form a circle and toss the ball from person to person, taking turns to answer the questions on the ball. I instruct people to answer the question their left thumb lands on. Use duct tape to cover old questions and write new ones. Consider themes such as the get to know you questions, like "What is your favorite food?" or "If you could have any superpower, what would it be?"
Questions can be themed to meet just about any need from "pop quiz" questions on a subject you've taught to more theoretical questions to generate conversation in the group.
The Buffalo Song
Best sung in a circle with clapping.
All: Buff-a-lo, buff buff a lo Buff-a-lo buff buff a lo… repeat 2x
Caller: Hey (Name)
Name: Hey what?
Caller: Hey (Name)
Name: Hay what, hey what?
Caller: Show me how you buffalo
All: Show us how you buffalo!
Name: My hooves are high, my hooves are low, and this (demo dance move) is how I buffalo!
All: Her hooves are high, her hooves are low, and this (repeat dance move) is how she buaffalos!
All: Return to Buff-a-lo, buff buff a lo Buff-a-lo buff buff a lo… and repeat the song from the top. The named becomes the next caller. The song ends after everyone has “buffaloed” once.
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Many woman and girls have difficulty embracing a genuinely positive body image. Dissatisfaction with our bodies is often driven by factors including:
- low self-esteem
- teasing by peers
- family structure and dynamics
Girls have an increasingly common obsession with achieving an unattainable "mainstream beauty ideal"*, one which girls see every day in the thousands of images and messages in magazines, TV, billboards, movies, the internet, advertising and other mass media outlets.
Girl Scouts of the USA recently published the results of a survey, Beauty Redefined: Girls and Body Image 2010, that polled 1,000 girls from across America. Here are some of the results:
- Nine in ten girls say the fashion industry and/or the media place pressure on teenage girls to be thin.
- 3/4 of girls surveyed say fashion is very important to them.
- 60% of girls report they compare their own bodies to images of fashion models. 48% wish to be just as thin, while 28% view most fashion models as ‘sick’.
- 31% of girls stated they had starved themselves as a way to lose weight.
Thankfully, one conclusion of the study was very clear: 81% of the girls surveyed want to see more ‘real’ or ‘natural’ images used by the fashion industry.
Tips and Techniques for Working with Girls
The seeds of courage and confidence have the best opportunity to grow in a girl who is secure and comfortable with her own appearance.
As a facilitator for ropes courses, I have observed girls who have exceptional problem-solving skills and creativity, who clearly want to participate, stand quietly aside because of an insecurity about their own body.
Some girls confessed they do not like to be touched because a peer might ‘feel their fat’. Another felt she could not trust the group to catch her due to being ‘too heavy’ for the spotters, even though she was one of the lightest in the group. These girls need help, and Girl Scouts is a great place to find it.
Tween and teen girls often experience periods of high and low self-esteem. Realizing this, and helping your girls see it in themselves, will aid the girls in understanding that cycles of emotions are normal. As a troop leader it is important to check-in individually with girls to make sure they have a safe space to talk.
Leader "Dos & Don'ts"
DO talk about this issue with your troop. Make group discussion and one-on-one check-ins a regular part of your routine.
DO be a role model by enjoying music, writing and performances by artists who have positive, affirming messages regarding women’s bodies. Avoid playing music that over-sexualizes or demeans women at any Girl Scout activity... even on a car ride for a field trip!
DO check out all the empowering movies out there, from Little Miss Sunshine to Barbie Nation.
DO encourage girls to attend Girl Scout summer resident camp. This all-girl environment provides an awesome opportunity for young women to escape daily pressures and find a safe space to learn more about themselves and try new things.
DO eat a healthy diet. Provide a balanced variety of snacks at your troop activities.
DON'T put yourself down or make self-depreciating remarks in front of your Girl Scouts.
DON'T make negative remarks about other peoples' appearance.
DON'T put off taking care of yourself! Often caregivers have trouble making time for themselves, but your physical and mental health is key to being a great mentor.
Group Activity to Build Body Image
Try this activity with your troop or girl group!
- Gather up a variety of magazines, preferably the ones your girls love. Be sure to include some local and national news, sports and arts magazines.
- At your meeting, put girls into small groups and give each group a few of the magazines.
- In their small group, ask them to count the number of images of women and of men and observe what types of scenes the women are in and what they see the men doing.
- Have the groups come together and report back. What are the common observations between groups?
- Find a picture of a model who is severely underweight. Share the image with your troop as a small group discussion piece. Encourage girls to share what they feel and think when viewing the image. Share the facts you have learned in this article. Understanding how unrealistic images are used in sales can take away some of the power mass media and the fashion industry have over girls’ self esteem. Discuss how the images they see of women in the media are different from the actual real women they see around them everyday.